Dementia is not something that only happens to 'old people', says Knoxfield resident Ken House.
Together 21 years, Ken and his wife Kiti, 66, learned she had Alzheimer's about six years ago. Ken says he now realises the signs were there about 15 years ago soon after Kiti turned 50.
"It was first picked up by one of her co-workers," he says. "Kiti was repeating herself all the time.
"Then, I picked up on it and said, there's something wrong. As time went on, with her work, she used to forget to come home or get lost and forget where home was.
"We had a few visits to the doctor and they thought it might be psychological. It took another five years before my wife actually got it diagnosed. She had a few brain scans but it wasn't until Kiti had a radioactive brain scan that it actually showed.
"It is a shame to see Kiti like this as she has three university degrees and used to run an import shipping company."
In what Ken describes as a "double whammy", Kiti's eyesight has also deteriorated because her brain has stopped processing visual information.
Although more common for people over 65, anyone can develop dementia.
Nearly 2,800 Knox residents currently live with dementia, with a 148% increase predicted over 35 years.
Council has launched the Knox Dementia Alliance to promote dementia-friendly initiatives, peer support and social connection opportunities for those living with dementia and carers.
Ken says the couple has become involved in Council's Alliance to find information, support, like-minded people and activities to enjoy together.
"We still have a good relationship," he says. "We still have a good laugh together, which is really nice. Kiti is very sociable and jovial. She likes bush walking and gardening; the feel and smell of bark and leaves. She's very fit."
Council is working with local businesses, services and organisations, who are increasingly interested in supporting their workforce to be dementia friendly.
"Council is talking about dementia-friendly businesses," Ken says. "Kiti goes and gets her hair dyed every seven-odd weeks and the shop she goes to is very good.
"At the bread shop we go to; they all know her and are welcoming. So, if we have a few more dementia-friendly shops, it would be good."
For more information about the Knox Dementia Alliance and other services and support for dementia, or to obtain a Dementia information pack, email [email protected] or call 9298 8000.
