Welcome to the start of something special.
Bringing a rescue dog home is one of the most rewarding things you can do, but it's also a big adjustment, for both of you. Your new dog is navigating a whole new world: unfamiliar smells, sounds, people, and routines. While it's tempting to jump straight into cuddles, playdates and adventures… the best gift you can give them right now is time, space, and patience.
Here's our advice to help you set your new best friend up for success:
1. Less is More: Let them Decompress
We know it's exciting! You've got a new dog, your friends want to meet them, and you may want to take them everywhere. But this can be really overwhelming.
Dogs need time to settle and feel safe in their new environment. For some, that might take a few days. For others, it could be a few weeks. Let them go at their own pace. Avoid big outings like the beach or dog park at first, and limit visitors while they get used to their new home.
2. Set Up a Safe Space
Create a designated "chill zone" in your home where your dog can retreat if they need quiet time. A covered crate, a cosy bed in a corner, or even a blanket under a table can give them that sense of security. If you're using a crate, leave the door open and let them choose to go in and out as they please.
3. Manage Expectations (For Both of You!)
It's easy to imagine the perfect dog right away… obedient, friendly, toilet-trained. But rescue dogs often come from stressful environments and may not know how to relax or behave in a home just yet. They need time to learn, and you might need to adjust your expectations as they do. Focus on who your dog is now, not who you expect them to be.
4. Enrichment is Everything
Dogs need outlets for their natural behaviours like sniffing, chewing, licking, shredding, and foraging. Enrichment toys like snuffle mats, lickimats, and treat-dispensing puzzles help reduce stress and promote calmness. You could think of enrichment like yoga for dogs…it releases feel-good chemicals in their brain and helps them settle.
5. Watch their Body Language
Your dog is constantly communicating. Some signs they might be overwhelmed include:
- Barking or lunging
- Heavy panting
- Growling or retreating
- Refusing treats or food
- Seeming "shut down" or overly alert
If your dog is showing these signs, the situation might be too much. Give them space and try again later.
6. Consent Matters
Not all dogs want affection right away, and that's okay. Try the "consent test": give a gentle pat on the chest or shoulder for 2-3 seconds, then stop. If they lean in or nudge your hand, keep going. If they turn away or don't react, give them space. Affection should always be a choice, not a demand.
7. Supervise, Don't Rush
If possible, take a week or two off work to supervise your dog at home. This allows you to spot signs of stress, escape attempts, or anxiety. Gradually build up their alone time with short departures and check-ins. If needed, ask a friend or family member to help or use a pet camera to monitor them.
8. Dog-Proof Your Home
Just like baby-proofing, your dog won't know what's off-limits. Put away shoes, cords, and anything valuable (or edible). Have chew toys ready to offer as alternatives.
9. Toilet Training Takes Time
Even adult dogs might not be toilet trained. Assume they don't know the rules yet and take them out regularly, especially after meals, naps, or play. Celebrate every success!
10. If You Have Other Pets…
Give everyone space to adjust. Don't expect instant friendship. Have separate areas available if things get tense, and always supervise early interactions.
11. Reinforce the Good Stuff
Notice your dog lying down calmly? Reward it! Sitting quietly while you make coffee? Toss a treat their way. The more you reinforce what you do want to see, the more they'll repeat it.
You're not alone.
Every rescue dog's journey is different, and there's no one-size-fits-all approach. Be patient, be kind, and don't be afraid to ask for help. The best thing you can give your dog right now? A little grace, a lot of love, and time to become who they were always meant to be.
